trust me, you need video

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January 10 2011

Hey peeps! Sometimes I get thoughts and I just want to share them with you. This post is really directed to all the future brides and grooms out there. Whether we’re shooting your wedding or not I want to share this piece of advice to with you all. Today’s topic is video and why you need it…

So many time’s I sit in my office meeting with brides and grooms or even on the phone. I always ask them this question. “Are you having a videographer at your wedding?” The answer is usually 50/50. Some couples know its super important and are 100% dead set on it. Some couples say tell me they don’t think they’d watch it more than once. That answer is totally not true, you’ll watch it more than once. I just received my video back in late December and I think we’ve hit double digits in plays and its only the 3rd week in January. Then I have some couples who unfortunately video does not fit within their budget and I understand that, maybe when it get’s closer to your date you’ll have extra funds and if you’re lucky a really incredible videographer will be available.

My personal opinion is you will want your ceremony, vows, rings, readings etc covered. You’ll also want your cocktail hour footage, intros, first dance, toasts, parent dances and cake cutting. If you’re doing a first look you’ll want to capture that as well. After receiving my video I have to say for me it completes the day. Sure I have incredible photos to cherish from our day but now I can see it all in motion and hear it. It’s a whole new and different experience when you sit down to watch your wedding video for the first time. As a photographer I can only capture so much. I can make time stand still and you can paint a picture of the sound and feelings of whats happening but with video it really completes the story. For me it was watching Kris Ann’s father walk her down the aisle, hearing the readings and vows and ceremony music. So much happens at once it really is all a blur. Also I enjoyed hearing our toasts, watching my dance with my mother and just seeing peoples smiles and laughs throughout the video.

A couple quick examples..

I did a wedding this summer that had one of the funniest toasts I’ve ever seen only to find no videographer in the house to professionally capture it with not only a solid shot but solid audio. In my opinion a flip camera (even if its hd) ain’t cutting it. Another time back in 2008 we shot a great wedding with the most incredible first dance I ever saw. I mean this was dancing with the stars type stuff and not one video camera in the house. I know that couple regrets not having a video. One more, when I went to a brides page on facebook who’s wedding I shot this year for something I noticed this image below. This post on facebook was the inspiration of this whole blog post, I felt awful reading it and then was compelled to share my thoughts with you all.

Lastly this post isn’t about pushing my videographer friends or pals. It’s about educating you guys on something I feel gets overlooked and shouldn’t. If you read this post and want my recommendation on a videographer I’d be more than happy to point you in the right direction.

Peace,
JP

Here is a video recap of our wedding that Al Woodard filmed..

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  • Wow, Just like your photography in motion, Lovin the stainless Daytona too… Congrats as you would say.

    01.23.11
  • I had a video and it is the first (HUGE) bit of advice I give to all my friends who get engaged. Everyone always tries to tell me it costs too much but, in my opinion, how can you possibly pay ALL of this money for a wedding and not be able to go back and see it? I tell them it is like buying a 2 ct. diamond but not buying the platinum to hold it. It makes NO sense to me! AND you miss so much of what goes on when it is your own wedding day. AND, MOST importantly, how can you show your kids someday if you don’t have this footage??? It is PRICELESS!! That is how I usually REALLY get my friends to get suckered in—what I call a NO-brainer!! I feel thankful I have a video but wish mine was as great as yours! We have Dave playing but it can’t come close!! WOW! Al is simply amazing! Every clip I have seen done by him takes my breath away—for real!

    01.20.11
  • AMAZING!!!

    01.16.11
  • I completely agree! Video is a MUST! Our video is so special to us. Our wedding was June 12 and my grandmother suddenly passed away October 10, 2010. Thank goodness for that video because we have visuals of her with us on our wedding day!

    01.13.11
  • that is such a wonderful video! and i love your jump for joy near the end!!!! so lovely. Thankfully I’m not married so I still have a chance to have an amazing photographer and videographer if the day ever comes :D :D thanks for sharing that video, and your opinion on having a video :)

    01.12.11
  • Very nice video! When the music started, I’m already in-love with it. You certainly know how to make a point. And the mash up between colored and then turn to black & white…wow!

    01.12.11
  • married oct 2009 and had a friend do it because we kept procrastinating and saying a videographer is an “if we have enough money in the budget for it” decision. luckily, our friend is a creative director so he did a great job! we still watch the DVD and relive the moments and (for both of us) the feelings come flooding back: music, laughter, the pure EMOTION of it all. AND it’s a good study tool for my husband when i tell him i want to re-do our first dance at our future anniversary parties ;)

    01.12.11
  • OMG, I cry everytime I see this video! Love it!

    01.12.11
  • nicely put jp..I can’t wait to see my wedding video!! AND Al did such a nice job with the snippet of yours and Kris Ann’s…loved every minute. you two are awesome.

    01.11.11
  • WOW! Al your work is spectacular! Its videos like these that make me wish I could do it all over again.

    01.11.11
  • Wish you were a big time blogger back in 2007 and I had seen this post back then. LOVE our Elario photos but miss the video for ALL of the reasons you mentioned above.

    01.10.11
  • I am so happy we were able to have video at our wedding. Future Brides and Grooms, it is a MUST have. The day is highly anticipated, and it is one of the most wonderful days of your life; to have beautiful pictures and a video to capture those feelings is priceless. Al, this video brought tears to my eyes, great work!!

    01.10.11
  • AMAZzzinng!

    01.10.11
  • Bravo – Absolutely – No Doubt – That’s Right – See What I’m Say’in – Yeah-Word – I Hear That – For Real – You Know That – What – You Know This – Nuff Said – Amen!

    01.10.11
  • Definitely agree. A video brings back emotions in a totally unique way when done properly. I will admit that I was one of those people who really didn’t think we would need or want one, but then clearly changed my mind. To loosely quote Al “The day when people really want a wedding video is the day after their wedding”.

    01.10.11
  • . . .Thanks for posting , special moments & days . .MUST , be captured by true – full time – professional’s , not weekend shooters / relatives / friends , PERIOD .

    01.10.11
  • Couldn’t agree more! We are looking so forward to seeing our video from Al. Future brides: No one does it better than JP and Joe and Al Woodard…They are the “A” team! Good luck to all of you planning.

    01.10.11

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