So heres a scenario, I put a new blog post up and usually one of the very first comments always comes from someone named Mona. The comment is always complimentary to the couple featured in the post and she seems to find something unique about the post she’s commenting on. Well, who is this Mona person anyways? She’s only left over 40 comments on the blog in over 30 some odd different posts. So recently a lot of different people started asking me “who is mona?”. To put it simple Mona is an upcoming bride of ours for this November. Mona is also my #1 blog fan. She may refer to herself as one of my blogstalkers but I don’t consider someone who’s left over 40 comments a stalker. A blogstalker would be the people who look but don’t comment. I know your looking too because I can tell ;). Today I give props to someone who comments and is awesome along with some pics too. You might remember I tweeted this from August 13th, we had to take some pics, because what’s a post without photos? Now here’s a little guest post from the one and only Mona…

Hello fellow blogstalkers! Most of you only know me from the many, MANY comments I’ve left over the past year on this website. I’m sure many of you are in the midst of planning your wedding, and I wanted to introduce myself, and share a little bit about how the process has been for me.
When Andrew and I first got engaged, the funniest question we heard was “So have you set a date yet?” Seriously? We’d been engaged for no more than 1 day when people started asking that. It can feel overwhelming if you don’t attack it all from the right angles.

With so many things to do, where to start?
We quickly realized that finding a venue, and deciding on music and photographers first were key. I guess it should come as no surprise who our photographers are given my enthusiasm here (thanks guys!) :-)
We came to find Joe and JP the way many of you probably did – through word of mouth. A friend of my mom had worked with Joe and JP for her daughter’s wedding, and after one look at their blog we were all hooked. Now, every time I see a new post, it just reminds me that Joe and JP will be capturing our special day with family and friends. Can you blame me for being excited? ;-)
For all of my vendors, word of mouth was definitely key. Granted, I still did my own research to make an informed decision, but it was helpful to have references from trusted sources. Everyone (and I do mean everyone!) referred us to Joe and JP… our seamstress directed us to Something Bleu, the bridal salon where I got my dress… Something Bleu referred me to my hair and makeup artist, Alayne Curtiss of Make Me Fabulous, as did Joe and JP… and the list goes on! It’s been really great being able to connect with everyone in person and even through facebook! I can truly say I’ve developed a relationship with everyone, and feel like I’m working with great friends, not strangers.
Another note – take advantage of the current/past brides in your lives – they are fantastic resources and support too!

For me, these months have not only been filled with wedding planning, but also finishing up my master’s in nursing to become a Nurse Practitioner, taking (and passing) my board exam, and trying to squeeze my way into the clogged job market. That’s right, even us health professionals are having trouble. Life is busy, and planning a wedding doesn’t have to rule your life. Since May, both Andrew and I have been doing a really intensive workout regimen. We honestly haven’t been doing it “for the wedding,” but I personally wanted to regain some strength that grad school took from me. We’re considering it a long term investment in our health, and so far persistence has been paying off with great returns in strength. It took me about three months to feel comfortable doing push-ups again, but I finally got it back.

So what I’m trying to say is take some time for yourself! Have fun, and enjoy these months leading up to your wedding day. For me, I know the details will fall into place as they should. All that matters is that Andrew and I are there standing with each other, and the day will be perfect just for that.
Anyways, that’s all for now! I just thought I’d drop in to say a quick hello before November!! Can’t wait!
Mona





























































































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I guess you caught me as a “blogstalker.” I have been enthralled with your work since I had heard you did the wedding of someone I know. You do amazing work and I am glad Mona said so from the start! Congrats to you Mona and best of luck to you in the future! Joe and JP- Keep up the amazing work. Although I don’t know many of the couples you seem to capture special moments that make us “stalkers” feel like we were there and know them first hand! Beautiful images!
Hilarious! Fortunately, I had the pleasure of growing up with Mona and she is fabulous! GREAT idea JP!
I was telling my cousin about this great site and the photographers and she thought it was a joke because she had you guys do her wedding, and is planning on it for renewing her vows soon! I am still young and don’t have a ring on my finger yet…but i know who I am going to when I get it! I think it will be a tradition passed down to have you guys! =) Keep up the GREAT work!!
MONA!! JP – What a clever idea… I enjoy reading her comments….
Mona and I went to HS together and I ran into her at my wedding in September. We have spent the past year emailing about vendors and the stress that comes with planning a wedding. She is wonderful and I am so happy for her! These photos truly capture her personality…. Andrew is a very lucky man!
I’m totally a non-commenting blog (and twitter) stalker, so in honor of Mona I’m finally commenting!! You guys shot a friend of a friend’s wedding about a year ago and I’ve been hooked on the blog ever since. Guess I’ll have to take a trip upstate when I get engaged! Great pictures – nice to put a face to Mona’s name!
Nice Post! I might admit to being a blogstalker and not leaving a post, so here’s to Mona!
Yo, it’s 10:00am and guess who I just spent the last half hour talking to… that’s right, none other than…MONA! We had another great conversation about so many things, but most importantly she has officially invited me to shoot her upcoming wedding in November. I’m excited to be a part of what I know will be a truly awesome event. Great job with this “who is Mona” post J.P., looks like I’ll need access to that lens bag just one more time. Can’t wait, with 300+ this one is going be challenging, but Fun!
fun post…. love the idea, and the fun you had with the pictures!
Very nice. Love the blog and the comments. Beuatiful pics!
awesome blog!! don’t know how you do it playa!
Mona! You look fantastic! Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials and your semi-stalker status! :)
WOW! I am really lucky! Such beautiful pictures of my beautiful bride-to-be. Thanks JP! Love the blog, can’t wait to see our pictures in November.
Mona!! how sweet are these pictures? So nice to meet you and your curls! you will be a beautiful bride…Congrats !!
I feel like I just had lunch with you Mona! So wonderful to put a face with the text!
You captured Mona BEAUTIFULLY!
For those of you who don’t know her, she is fun-loving and a wonderful person! I look forward to the wedding pictures!
Mona-it’s great to “meet you”! I too love watching the blog posts and seeing the latest work of Joe and JP as our wedding is in June of 2010. Enjoy the rest of your planning and of course, your big day in November! Can’t wait to see the pictures :-)
Fabulous!! Love ya Mona and JP can’t wait till November too!!
What a pleasure to meet you in this venue MONA. You’re as electric as your posts. Enjoy the next few months leading up to what seems to be an exciting fall for you. Look forward to seeing your pics and reading future posts.
very much dig this post… finally, i was curious too. congrats Mona and thanks for sharing. i too enjoy reading your comments. Joe and JP are the best in so many ways… i’m still looking at my blog post…
Every time I look at these pictures, I can’t help but smile. You guys are wonderfully talented, and very professional – you make people feel comfortable with you, and it shows through your work. Mo and I are just as excited to work with you in November. :)
Yeah!! The mystery commenter “live and in person”!! Mona, I always enjoy reading your comments as we enjoy the masterpieces on the blog!! Enjoy your last few months of craziness and wedding prep!! I am in healthcare (we are all crazy!), planned a wedding from afar and LOVE LOVE LOVE the Elarios!! May your wedding day be even more than you imagine it to be, and Joe and JP will preserve it all for you!!! We are all lucky to have them! LOVED the pics of the mystery blog fan!!
bravo pour ce magnifique travail, il faut dire que le model est source d’inspiration ;)
Awww Mona you look gorgeous! These pictures totally capture your personality :) oh, andrew looks ok too, i guess. but where’s his ipod? :P
mona! i’ve always wondered who you were…you always say the nicest things about the posts and almost always get the comments rolling! can’t wait to see your wedding pics (and comment!)
Now I know who Mona is!! I met Andrew & Mona’s family outside Uncommon Grounds in March (I believe Mona was at a friends shower) but now I can put a face to a name. Looking forward to seeing your pics come November, Congrats!!
Aww, Mona- it’s so nice to “meet” you! Can’t wait to see your wedding photos!! Best of luck in the last few months…it goes by so fast!! Enjoy every second!!
Too funny! I love it. I think you should profile each of your commenting blog addicts :)
Yeah Mona! I agree with Rae…we all need a Mona!
. . .so cool . . Mona . .
that was an awesome post! love it! Mona is the type of client we all want!
Yay! Love the shots, JP. :) Definitely captures the fun of the day. Thanks again for letting me be a guest-blogger. (Nice ending with the Elario leg kick – don’t think I didn’t notice that!) :)